Talking is highly utilized in social life. A prime minister delivering a speech, telling a joke, or even a friendly "hello". With all these purposes, talking seems like the most effective way of communication. It is surprising how easily people can be manipulated by means of talking, or the lies that are coated within the words. Is talking really the ultimate form of communication?
With the advancement of technology, more people are communicating with one another via email text, or other social medias. Phones are barely used, as a single text can convey the same purpose, but in a faster and more convenient way. Be that as it may, a text sent as a joke could be read in a different light. It could be received as rude, offensive, or even insulting. A sorrowful update on Facebook might not be able to express the true in depth feelings, hence, the hurt will be easily swept aside. Face to face talking allows emotions to ride out on the words to project true thoughts on a subject matter. A simple verbal greeting can show someone what social/relationship status they stand on. Through text, a "hey" can offer many mixed feelings and messages. Also, talking is more preside and easy to understand. It can coax out immediate reaction and response, whereas an email might be accidentally delete do purposely ignored. On the phone and through speech, it is a safe bate that the message was delivered.
When parting, the farewell can give an indication as to how well the discussion went. It can show a summary of the chat. A reluctant goodbye, to a curt part, or an acrid hiss can't be seen or felt through text. It is more accurate to communicate with speech.
The emotions that easily brew out can have a side affect. If someone does not wish to share selective feelings, it would be more comfortable to communicate through text. Like so, people can easily act aloof instead of nervous, happy instead of jealous, and so on. They will be able to fake emotions to fit the context, and cover true feelings with the help of a text' slow sentimental value. Texts can mask unwanted thoughts that a soft tone or a gruff reply can give away. Naturally, the discussion won't be as effective, but it will sure be satisfying. Also through text, people often become braver. Since immediate response can be avoided, people can hide behind their words. For example, an employee who is intimidated by their boss can ask for a raise through email.
Some times, words cannot explain the true feelings or the apologies. A small smile with a pat on the back and even a hug, can explain a whole story. When some one is upset, they do not want to complain to others, but a glazed eye can show it all. A hand gesture, raised eyebrows, or a twitch of the lips can tell a lot about the hidden meanings behind words. Talking is a form of verbal communication, but nonverbal communication works just fine. Talking can indeed display the different tones, but sometimes a harsh 'No' is an accident. Appraise the body for different signs. Creased eyebrows, crossed arms and a puffed up chest can signify a strong disagreement whereas a scrunched face and a small roll of the eyes may indicate a slight annoyance. Taking in the signs of body language can show others exactly what going on in the mind, without the heavy baggage of words.
Talking is quite effective in business or persuasion, by hearing others' reaction, can alert the speaker to change tactics and try a different approach. Talking may not be the most satisfying mean of communication, but is is surely effective and easy to understand.
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